{RULE 12}
THE TERRIBLE LIFE PARTNER……..This is quite self explanatory.
A lot of women and couple of men are in an abusive relationship and marriages.
I like the white folks because when they are fed up with their relationships,
they call it quits. But in Africa, and Asian and India so many women stick to
an abusive violent spouse even when they are being battered they hang on. I
don’t subscribe to this. Asian women are now being conscious and they are
getting smart and opting out of violent and abusive marriages. Indian women and
Arab women are being held down under the guise of religion and tradition. I am
aware that in Arab and Indian society there is what they call honor killing.
Honor killing is carried out when a young girl marries outside her tribe and
religion or when she is engaged in sexual activities before marriage. Her
father or uncles or brothers become judge and jury they carry out the killing
of the girl for they believe the girl has thrown their honor and family name in the mud and so to redeem it, they must kill the girl.. These barbaric acts still exist. I am a realistic pragmatic
fellow. I call black, black. I encourage women in the world all over if your spouse
is abusive, mean, violent and volatile do not wait till he kills you, report
him to the authorities let the law take its natural course. Most women can’t
fight for their right because they are not educated they are not employed so
where will they go, how will they survival and because of culture they can’t go
back to their fathers house. This factor makes them remain in the marriage. The
bible does not advocate divorce; the only condition that the bible supports
divorce is when adultery is involved. But I ask what can be worse than murder.
Most abusive violent men end up killing their wives. I am no fool; the bible
needs to revisit this issue. The church needs to revisit this issue I don’t believe
in 3 strikes. If a man gets violent on the wife repeatedly I encourage the wife
to get a divorce or arm herself with a weapon. The next time he lays his hands
on you render an unforgettable damage to him, in his next life he will never
dare to get violent on a woman. Forget what the church or society will say, get
a divorce before you end up dead. In Africa women won’t leave their abusive marriages
because of their kids. But thank God our government is getting organized and
being responsive to this issue. A terrible life partner can kill you faster
than anything else, faster than a health disorder. I encourage everyone going
into marriage to take time out to date and court your partner. learn to
investigate your partner for you might be amazed at what you find out. To an
abusive husband I say to you a dog is far better than you. A dog wont attack his master, if i were you i would get me some help to help me treat my problems.Someone sent me a mail and
asked me ‘Dr Paul, what do you have to say about an abusive wife, that beats up the
husband, slaps the husband any time she feels like and the man does not
retaliate’. Well my reply to the question is, ‘if a wife beats up the husband then it’s a show
of love, for she truly loves him so much. Such a man is lucky to have a wife that gets physical on him’. Do not forget
that women are the weaker vessel. So if a wife beats up the husband then it’s a
way of her telling the husband to love her some more. She craves for love and attention from the
husband'. So I encourage such a man love your wife some more, be sensitive to her
needs and wants for she is your baby. But if a man on the other hand gets
physical on the wife, then this is criminal.
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